When it comes to affairs advice for married women you are going to need to make sure that you make planned out and smart decisions about who you plan on doing this with. It is never a good idea to have an affair with a person that is friends with your spouse. This can really only end up getting you into a lot more trouble and end up being really messy and complicated.
Protection
Always make sure that you use protection. Even if you know for sure that this person does not have any STDs you need to still make sure that protection is used. You don’t want to end up getting pregnant and not knowing who the father is. You also don’t want to end up putting yourself at risk for STDs. Chances are you are not the only person that this person is having sex with. You could be putting yourself and your spouse at risk for STDs when you forget protection.
Expectations
You have got to know what your expectations are with this person. They need to know as well. You need to make sure that you know whether or not this is something that you are willing to leave your marriage for. If it is, then you need to know for sure that they are on the same page. It can end up becoming even more difficult if one of you has stronger feelings than the other. You also need to make sure that they understand beforehand that your time with them will more than likely be limited because you have a life outside of this affair.