When it comes to affairs advice with married women it is important that you are able to make sure to be careful. There have been plenty stories of men that have found their wives with another man and have been blinded by rage. Make sure that you are careful and that you know how to prevent the affair from getting too messy.
Who
It is usually a good idea for you to try to get with a woman whose husband you do not know. If you end up sleeping with the wife of a friend you are going to have a lot harder time keeping it a secret and being able to enjoy yourself. A woman that is married to a man that you work with or think of as a friend is one that can end up being more trouble than she is worth. Try a search on a Local Swingers site, you will be able to search by area and hopefully find someone with similar sexual interests.
Where
While it may seem sexy and dangerous you should try to not have sex with her in her house. This is especially true if she has children. You don’t want the kids to end up finding out and expecting them to keep a secret from their own father. Plus you will never know if and when her husband will be coming home early for whatever reason.
When
It is always important that you both are able to pick times that will work best for you. It can be difficult to work around the schedule of a person that has children or if you both have full time jobs. Make sure that you don’t get too greedy with her time.